withoutyou是与你无关的意思吗

是有该意思。

例如

It could be that what you want just drops into your lap without you knowing about it.很有可能你想要的东西，在不经意间就到来了。

We've got enough problems without you trying to stir things up.我们麻烦事儿已经够多的了，你就别再挑拨是非了。